Know Your Options

You’ll Be Stronger

We know you work hard and you’re trying to be on top of your game. But that doesn’t mean you’re not stressed or confused about the myriad options in front of you. Balancing it all is hard work, but always remember that you don’t have to have it all at the same time. Here’s a little guidance for the decade that you’re living in.

You’re fresh out of college and life is your oyster. Our advice: live it up! Use these years to find yourself and your passions, both in your career and life. Date a lot of guys so you know if you’ve really found the one! And it’s ok if you don’t find him or her! Travel!  Get to know yourself really well; you’ll make better choices. Try not to panic. You have more power and more options than you know.

Your Fertility

If you’re concerned about the future of your fertility, remember that it’s never too early to start taking care of your fertility health. Consider getting a fertility test,  freezing your eggs (many companies cover this on their insurance plans now), and there are also many natural ways to boost your fertility. It’s all preventive medicine.

Pregnancy Statistics for Your Age:
Image Credit: Live Science

Image Credit: Live Science

Relevant Articles 

Egg Freezing

The Scoop on Fertility Tests

Boost Your Fertility Naturally 

When I was 31, I had it all for about a year: a boyfriend with potential, a glamorous career that let me travel the world, and family on the horizon. But then we broke up, and I felt like I was caught in a whirlpool at the edge of a rushing social current. I was confused, spinning in circles, and surrounded by new questions: what kind of relationship was right if this one was wrong? If I just invested one year in a nowhere relationship, then how much time would I need to invest in a relationship that actually went somewhere? I had known all my life that I wanted to be a mother, but it wasn’t until the break-up that I felt biology toe-tapping her toes.

Let’s face it, the 30s are exhilarating and  hard. You’re building your career, you’re trying to balance a lot. Maybe you’re married and have kids. Maybe you’re single and trying to figure that part out. Just know that the mad rush to get it all should not make you crazy. Everything will look different in your 40s. Your friend who you thought was perfect may reveal she’s actually been in an unhappy marriage for ten years.

It’s not always about achieving the status quo. Try not to let peer pressure get you down and always follow your own heart and voice. Whenever you are in your life, if you think kids are in your future, take charge of your fertility. It will help you turn panic into peace.

Your Fertility

Consider getting a fertility test,  freezing your eggs (many companies cover this on their insurance plans now), and there are also many natural ways to boost your fertility. It’s all preventive medicine.

Pregnancy Statistics for Your Age:
Image Credit: Live Science

Image Credit: Live Science

Relevant Articles and Resources:

Egg Freezing

The Scoop on Fertility Tests

DIY Motherhood

Trust me, everything will get better when you turn 40. You’re more confident and you know what you want. Most, important, you’ll discover, it’s an age of reckoning.  You’ll begin to see some of the cracks among those who achieved the status quo. The good news is that work and relationships actually get easier; there’s less second guessing. You’re freer to do your own thing, maybe even stage what I like to call a status coup. If you haven’t gotten married and had kids, then you may be thinking about whether you will, or you may decide to put the cart before the horse and choose to become a DIY Mom. You never know what will happen in life, so just enjoy the moment and keep pursuing your passions.

Your Fertility

If you’re concerned about the future of your fertility, remember that it’s never too early to start taking care of your fertility health. Consider getting a fertility test,  freezing your eggs (many companies cover this on their insurance plans now), and there are also many natural ways to boost your fertility. It’s all preventive medicine.

Pregnancy Statistics for Your Age:
Image Credit: Live Science

Image Credit: Live Science

Relevant Articles and Resources:

Egg Freezing

The Scoop on Fertility Tests

Boost Your Fertility Naturally 

DIY Motherhood

 

Remember…

Happiness is a Choice.

Marriage is a Choice.

Children Are a Choice.

We’re behind you!